You are here because you are ready to find your Soulmate.
You are a single or divorcing woman who may feel lost or hopeless. Going forward, you may feel uncertain about relationships and why things went so wrong or keep going wrong for you.
Perhaps you are suffering from low self esteem. Or you have zero confidence after a bad relationship or break up, wondering why you have allowed yourself to be treated badly, Maybe you are here because you struggle sustaining relationships or finding lasting love.
Whatever your story, I am here to tell you that being single is exactly where you are meant to be right now. Nothing happens by mistake. Nothing!
This Single place is presenting you with an unparalleled opportunity find your SOULMATE and LASTING LOVE.
Perhaps for the first time ever, you can use this time discover your authentic power and beauty. To learn from your past why your relationships have suffered and to create new insights into who you are and where you have been going wrong in attracting healthy relationships.
Shedding old ways thinking is like shedding your old skin and will transform you, reduce anxiety and rebuild your confidence. This will make you irresistible to the opposite sex. And that is where all the fun begins.
I welcome you to Single Girl’s Rehab
I am an accredited Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist and Single Women’s Coach. I am 100% confident I can solve your problem with love.
With over 10 years experience of working with Single Women and listening to their relationship struggles I noticed that while every woman and her story was different they all had one thing in common.
These women lacked Self love and the confidence to release the resistance born from a childhood that did not allow for love to enter your life. They also carried huge feelings of resentment, anger and blame towards their ex partners. Blocking any possibility of healthy love coming their way.
It was time to create a solution to solve all of these problems. I created the Single Girl’s Rehab
In a recent published survey by Mckinley Irvin 50% of Marriages end in divorce, and 62% of those were petitioned by the woman. Many of us re failing at love because we do not understand the ourselves and baggage we are bringing to the table. We are depending on our partners to give us love, joy, purpose and validation, when we do not know how to give these things to ourselves.
Self love and emotional intelligence are the keys to a successful relationship. Without them our relationships are likely to be messy and confusing for all Involved.
I HAVE BEEN WHERE YOU ARE NOW!
I grew up with parents who despite trying their best, had a dysfunctional relationship. Codependency, infidelity and emotional immaturity.
They were both pre occupied with their work and each other and did not have the ability to attune to their own emotional needs not to mention mine.
This meant, I never had a healthy relationship model to refer to. I didn’t know how to love or value myself or to be a part of a healthy coupling. I had never witnessed it growing up. I thought being in love meant suffering, co dependency and conflict, and that’s exactly what I experienced for many years until I was able to let go of my childhood story.
Today, I understand that deep and lasting love requires a woman to Truly love and value herself. To have emotional independence and things in her life that bring her true happiness and keep her centred.
She should have A level of emotional intelligence into herself and her feelings to correctly interpret her triggers and her unconscious she sabotages and resists love.
A healthy relationship will accommodate and help heal our various emotional shortcomings and baggage. But we must learn how to regulate our emotions and soothe ourselves to some degree, if we are to break from the strongholds of our past triggers.
I created The Single Girls Rehab from my own personal struggles as well as from working with couples and women for over 10 years.
Today, I am a successful Mother, Psychotherapist, Speaker, Coach and Author. In the end it was not my degrees and qualifications that helped. It was my willingness to seek help and work on myself.
After all the time, investments and hard work I’ve put into myself I am still far from perfect. And that’s ok.
We seek progress not perfection. There is absolutely no such thing as a perfect relationship. But there is such thing as a GREAT one.
I am in a committed, happy, healthy and exciting relationship with the man of my dreams. I have done the work on myself and have attracted a man who is equally imperfect but absolutely perfect for me.
We work at our relationship where necessary and have a very deep Love and respect for each other. Fairytales and happily ever afters are for movies. Healthy and happy lasting love takes time, work and requires maintenance.
I do this work because I have suffered greatly with a lack of self love and any insight into myself and what a successful relationship requires. But I do not regret a single experience or failed relationship along my journey.
Everything I’ve been through has helped me to a strong spiritual faith and I to know that every painful experience, every heart break, and every special person I have lost has led me to do this work on myself and To Work with you!
I have helped so many women to transform their thinking and find true love. I can help you too! You have attracted this information because you are ready to meet your Soulmate.
My work is my great love and my purpose. As I said.. For me it is personal!